Monday, September 28, 2009

3 SIMPLE RULES FOR BUILDING AN ONLINE COMMUNITY


1) Actually Care – Are you Friends on facebook and other social sites? Let’s face it, anybody can add numbers to their Twitter followers, but building an online community goes beyond that to caring holistically about the person. This involves doing what you can to get to know the person better. Not stalking them, but seeking to get to know them better. This won’t happen if you don’t care to begin with.

2) Respond/Comment – There’s no way you can get to know someone if you aren’t in communication with them. Communication is the key to establishing any relationship even if it is online. Ask questions; answer questions; encourage; support. Once you get to know someone then you can joke, but be careful joking at first. It's hard to hear the tone in someone's voice when you are only reading.

3) Move On – If someone isn’t in to you, then move on to someone that is. There are millions of people on Twitter, Facebook, and MySpace, and if only a fraction of those are interested in being your online buddy then that is still more than you need to actually be a friend. The beauty of social sites is that people who care can get connected and grow. Also, if they don't care, then you no longer have to follow. 

So, how serious are you at building community online? Do you do it to feed an ego or to meet and get to know people?

Tuesday, September 22, 2009

My Prayer 4 You.

Today as I was having my quiet time, I came across this Scripture. I've read it before, but it has never hit me the way it did today. When I had finished, I couldn't stop reading back over it. As the afternoon progressed, just as Paul was using it as a prayer for the Philippian church, I began to pray it for my church, friends, and family. I thought that I would share it with you... 
"God can testify how I long for all of you with the affection of Christ Jesus. And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless until the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ—to the glory and praise of God" (Philippians 1:8-11).
I wish I would have been able to write this myself, but it truly is my heart. I love you all, and am so thankful to serve Jesus along side each of you .  


Monday, September 21, 2009

NO MORE BREAKFAST?

Absolutely hilarious. Enjoy...

Some of this sounds good, but some of it is scary. I've never had sugar and grits, but I would have a hard time not having eggs, biscuits, and bacon. Please Lord, let there be bacon and eggs in Heaven...

ready to die?

Recently at Valley View we've been looking at Spiritual Fruit and the idea that to produce Spiritual Fruit or have the right attitudes (that's what the fruit are), we must abide in Christ. I got this from the John text that says, Jesus is the vine, we are the branch, and God is the Gardener (John 15:1-17). I feel like most of us understand the vine and branch metaphor that Scripture uses to portray our relationship with Christ, but there's always difficulty in applying it. I think this is mainly because it's so easy to say we are attached to Christ, but in order for us to abide in Christ something crazy has to happen – we must get over ourselves. Paul says it a little more radically, in that we must die to ourselves (1 Corinthians 15:31).

The glue, if you will, that allows us to abide in or be grafted into the vine (Jesus), is dying to ourselves. The obvious problem with being living sacrifices is that because we are alive and kicking, we must be intentional not to crawl off the altar table. For example it will take some work for me if I am going to allow myself to die each morning. I mean, that's not a natural thing for us to be okay with! But the bottom line, is that for us to be grafted into and receive the abundant life that Jesus offers we must abide in Him - die to ourselves so we can be made alive in Him.

One of my favorite Scripture is John 12:23-25 which virtually says the same thing,
"The hour has come for the Son of Man to be glorified. I tell you the truth, unless a kernel of wheat falls to the ground and dies, it remains only a single seed. But if it dies, it produces many seeds. The man who loves his life will lose it, while the man who hates his life in this world will keep it for eternal life."


There’s so much good stuff here for us to talk about, but Jesus is basically telling His disciples that to live they need to die. I know this isn’t the most comfortable teaching because most of us aren’t in a big hurry to die. We may say we want to see Jesus, but when it all comes down to it, dying doesn’t seem like much fun. As odd as it is, some of my favorite OLD hymns have to do with dying. How many of you know the hymns "When the roll is called up yonder," or "When we all get to heaven?" I love those songs! They're fun to sing! But when the time comes to cross the great divide, even the most spiritual tend not to be too homesick. We’ve grown accustomed to this world! We’ve trained ourselves to defend our lives, our loved ones, and our possessions. In essence we’ve trained ourselves to survive.

And yet, Jesus tells us our very usefulness - our fruitfulness for God - is tied to our willingness to surrender our lives and die for Him. So here's my question, are you willing to die to yourself? What's holding you back? To be honest, I always want to, I just forget to. I guess I need to make it a greater priority... Do you?